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CharlyB's avatar

I heard this podcast on my daily painful commute and it made me think. I aim to be and do this - https://www.npr.org/2005/08/08/4785079/always-go-to-the-funeral

Steve's avatar

At church this morning, the priest broke the news of the death of a fellow church-member.

You Mean Someone Went Home! Someone graduated from Basic Training! Someone now Finally REALLY GETS IT...UNDERSTANDS.

Yes for us sad, we miss this person.....for Them however.....A Different Story. Farther Up And Farther In!!!

Mike McDevitt's avatar

I am content lest death come knocking on my door. That being said, I would like to see my grandkids enter adulthood and maybe even get married.

Stephen Hampton's avatar

Nice write Bryan. Captures a few of my thoughts as I stood speaking at my mother’s service this past Friday. She had an incredible 100 years, but the last few are more lonely — your observations apply, as her family peers and friends died well before her, leaving a space that was difficult to fill. And leaving us to wonder how we will cope with that, and how that informs our own lives.

Bryan McGrath's avatar

Thank you, Steve. Sorry about your Mom.

Philo Beddoe's avatar

So if you're walkin' down the street sometime

And spot some hollow, ancient eyes

Please don't just pass 'em by and stare

As if you didn't care

Say, "Hello in there, hello"

- John Prine

Lidia's avatar

Lovely, even the bit about death.